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Live in Couple Job

Live in Couple Job in Surrey We have a lovely position for a returning client of Greycoat Lumleys who are looking for a Couple (Housekeeper & Groundsman) to join their existing team. The main house consists of 8 bedrooms, and the estate is on 40 acres of land. The family have 3 young children aged 6, 3 & 2. There are 2 dogs, 2 cats, alpacas, sheep and chickens You will be joining an existing team that consists of a Domestic Couple (who Greycoats placed in 2022), a Live out Housekeeper, Chef and Gardener. The ideal couple would be team players, discreet, proactive, flexible and willing. Duties to include: Keeping the house clean and tidy Laundry, ironing and fabric care Care of fine fabrics, delicate materials (training and support will be given) Care of antiques, artwork and fine surfaces Preparing simple meals for the children Occasional childcare assistance (school runs, preparing meals, babysitting etc) Shopping and running errands Driving duties and vehicle maintenance Groundsman duties (lawn mowing, hedge trimming etc Use and maintenance of machinery Use of equipment and confident using a tractor would be desired. Handyman duties (basic DIY, minor repairs etc) Liaising with contractors Dog care Animal care Security House and pet sitting when the family are away Start date: between January – March 2026 Working week: Monday – Friday with some weekend work when required. 40 hours each a week Accommodation: 2-bedroom cottage with small garden. Utility bills included. Pets will be considered. Salary: £70,000 - £80,000 gross per annum, depending on experience Driving: ideally both must drive Responsible consultant: Georgia Lester Job reference number: 191502

Surrey
Permanent
£70,000 - £80,000 GPA

Couple Job

Couple Job, Fife, Scotland Greycoat Lumleys are seeking a Couple for a warm, informal family home with 100 acres based in beautiful rural East Fife is looking for a hands on, flexible, and proactive domestic couple to live in to join their household. This is the family home of the principals and their 2 children, aged 6 and 8. Therefore must love children and animals. The Principals will be in full time residence other than trips for work or personal travel. The current Couple have been employed for the last 12 years and are retiring, they have very much been part of the family. Therefore, an excellent opportunity for a new team to take over the care and management of this special property. The ideal candidates with have experience within private households/estates and the combined skills of housekeeping/gardening/handyman and perhaps some cooking experience too. Housekeeper/Mothers Help duties: This position is varied and will include but will not be limited to the following Duties Include: Day-to-day thorough housekeeping - including cleaning, dusting, bed changing, laundry, ironing, hoovering Looking after antiques, fine furnishings, and delicate finishes Polishing and cleaning of silverware, brassware, Creating a calm, organised and well-run household Occasional school runs, babysitting, cooking for the children Taking children to activities and providing supervision where needed Evening babysitting, occasional overnight babysitting by prior arrangement Occasional proxy parenting when both parents are away If the housekeeper enjoys cooking this would be a bonus, as the principals would occasionally like help when they have guests staying – generally helping to prepare, laying of dining room table and serving meals/ generally be an extra pair of hands. As the housekeeping duties can have the odd quieter period, having an interest in gardening would be beneficial. Handyman/Gardener duties: This position is pretty flexible and generally being all rounded should have a practical background with good hands-on maintenance skills and be capable of property maintenance and hard landscaping. Interest in improving garden areas. Responsible for the maintenance of the buildings, gardens, walled garden, woodlands and grounds. Maintain the garden and grounds to a high standard including grass cutting, edging, path clearing, hedge cutting and tree pruning, weeding, tree management, driveway maintenance and seasonal duties e.g. leaf clearing General maintenance and basic DIY across the property and outbuildings Clean and look after the cars, garden machinery, undertaking and arranging servicing, repairs etc Other building maintenance activities e.g. clearing gutters, simple plumbing, DIY, property maintenance Managing tradespeople and overseeing repairs or schedules Maintain a stock of logs and monitor heating oil Occasional driving duties for the principals to and from airport, station pickups, restaurants etc. Previous qualifications of a trade and gardening knowledge and experience a bonus A chainsaw license and experience Tractor experience Supporting security and the smooth day to day operation of the property As the family have two dogs and a flock of chickens, a fondness for animals is essential as the couple will assist with their daily care, exercise through the grounds and pet sitting when the principals are travelling. Candidate Qualities Previous experience as a domestic couple in a private household or estate Self-motivated and genuinely happy working together A practical, can-do attitude with a respectful, professional approach Excellent references and the right to work in the UK A good understanding of privacy and discretion Pet-friendly and at ease in a rural, countryside setting Ideally both must be confident drivers (car provided for work use; own car required for personal use) Location: Fife, Scotland Accommodation: 2-bedroom private cottage on the estate including council tax, electricity, heating and firewood Days: Monday to Friday – flexibility at weekends Start Date: The role is available for an immediate start as soon as the right candidate is found. Salary: £60,000 GPA depending on experience This is a special opportunity to join a thoughtful and well-supported household where your contribution will be genuinely appreciated. The right couple will enjoy the peace and beauty of East Fife while helping to maintain a home with care, skill, and quiet pride.

Fife
Permanent
£60,000+ DOE

Butler Job

Butler Job The private household butler will provide exceptional service and day-to-day operational support within a refined and well-run London residence. The role requires an experienced professional with professional butler training and a keen eye for detail, excellent organisational abilities, and the highest standards for discretion. Acting as a key liaison between the principals, guests, and household staff, the Butler ensures smooth daily operations, impeccable service, and an immaculate household environment always. Key Responsibilities Service and Hospitality Open and close the property each day, maintaining household security and readiness; Review the family’s schedule each morning to plan and prepare for daily service; Set up and clear dining areas for meals, ensuring presentation standards are met; Serve meals, beverages and refreshments throughout the day with discretion and professionalism; Greet and attend to family members and guests, providing a warm, polished and seamless experience; Maintain and restock coffee machine, drinks cabinet and snack stations; Clear tables, wash or oversee dish washing, and ensure dining and service areas remain pristine; Coordinate shopping, deliveries, and household supplies as required; Support and assist with evening dinners or special events as needed. Household Organisation & Maintenance Maintain stock of the butler’s pantry, wine cellar and household consumables; Polish and care for silver, brass, glassware and other fine service items; Replace flowers if requested by principals; Conduct regular checks of fridges, cupboards, and pantry areas, ensuring cleanliness and rotation of stock; Liaise with the Property Manager regarding contractors, maintenance and repair work; Oversee and coordinate care, cleaning and scheduling for the client’s car fleet. Personal Assistance and Wardrobe Care Manage the organisation and care of wardrobes, including clothing maintenance and pressing; Clean, polish and refresh shoes, coats and accessories; return items neatly to their designated places; Pack and unpack luggage for travel with efficiency and attention to detail; Communicate client requests clearly to other household departments; Work in close coordination with Personal Assistants to support the Principals’ daily needs. Requirements Formal butler training from a recognised, high-quality institution; Proven experience working in a private household environment; Demonstrate ability to manage and coordinate teams of housekeepers or other staff; Valid driver’s licence; Must be a dog lover; Excellent discretion, communication skills, and commitment to confidentiality. Additional Information Accommodation: Will consider live-in (in neighbouring accommodation) or live-out arrangements; Occasional weekend or evening work may be required for events or family commitments, with notice given. Monday – Friday, 10:00am – 6:00pm Salary: £55,000 - £65,000 GPA

London
Permanent
£55,000 - £60,000 GPA

PA Job

PA / Administrator, Berkshire, South of England An exciting opportunity to join a distinguished private estate, supporting both business operations and household affairs. This varied role offers the chance to work in a welcoming environment, supporting high-profile principals and ensuring the smooth running of the estate, associated properties, events and charitable activities. We are seeking a highly organised, proactive and adaptable PA / Administrator — someone who takes pride in delivering exceptional service, has strong attention to detail, and enjoys a role where no two days are the same. You will support across corporate administration, event coordination, estate management and private PA duties for the principals and their family. This position would suit an experienced Administrator, Team Assistant or PA who is ready to step into a broader role with genuine responsibility and trust. Key duties include: • Front of house responsibilities including calls, deliveries and post management • Maintaining electronic and physical filing systems and compliance documentation • Coordinating external suppliers and contractors • Website updates, newsletters and social media content management • Supporting event bookings and coordination (including private estate events) • Private PA support to the principals and their family • Full administrative support for an associated charitable organisation • Drafting agreements and supporting property administration tasks • Household and family calendar management • Travel logistics and itineraries • Handling budgets, expenses and insurance policies • Personal support including errands and occasional driving • Coordinating household staff, contractors and maintenance • School and family-related administration • Support with pets, guests and seasonal family events when required The successful candidate will be confident working independently, able to prioritise a varied workload, and calm under pressure. Discretion, initiative and a positive, solutions-focused mindset are key — this is a role for someone who enjoys being “one step ahead”. Hours & Holidays • Full-time, onsite role • 20 days holiday + bank holidays Benefits • A varied and fulfilling position • Supportive and collaborative working environment • Opportunity to gain wide-ranging experience within a respected private setting Start ASAP Salary £35,000 per annum

Berkshire
Permanent
£35,000 GPA

Live in Couple Job

Live in Couple Job in Somerset An exciting vacancy for a Domestic Couple to join a lovely young couple who have 3 children (9, 7 & 3 years old). They reside a beautiful 7,000 sq property within a 30-acre estate (9 acres of garden and fields) in stunning Somerset. They are close to Bath as well as the Wiltshire border. Aside from the main 6-bedroom house, there is also a coach house. Duties include: General housekeeping; cleaning, washing, ironing, etc Childcare support (assisting Mum, who is very hands on) Assisting with family meal preparation House maintenance - window cleaning, changing light bulbs, basic repairs, rubbish removal etc. Liaising with contractors Gardening - lawn care, watering plants, weeding, hedge trimming etc (a gardening team is employed twice a week) Driving duties (driving the children to school and activities, airport & station runs etc) Vehicle maintenance - basic checks, tyres, oil levels, cleaning etc House sitting when the family are away Running errands: parcel collection, shopping, dry cleaning etc. Occasional babysitting The principals are looking for a reliable, proactive, child friendly and communicative couple to become part of their family and stay with them long-term. Start date: ideally January, but flexible for the right couple Working week: Monday to Friday, with flexibility to work occasional weekends when required Hours: approx. 40 hours a week (hours are negotiable for the right couple) Accommodation: 2-bedroom cottage with private driveway and garden. Pets might be considered. Bills included. Driving: Ideally both must drive Salary: £70,000 - £75,000 gross annual salary, depending on experience Responsible consultant: Georgia Lester Job Number: 190937

Somerset
Permanent
£70,000 - £75,000 GPA

Butler/Cook Job

Butler/Cook Job A single gentleman in Notting Hill is looking for a Butler/Cook, this is a live in role and comes with your own separate 1-bedroom flat. There is 1 part time housekeeper who you will work with, and he also owns a country home which you maybe required to go to from time to time. Cooking 5 days a week - evening dinner of 2 courses Liaise and oversee any contractors and maintenance schedules Provisioning for the household Dress the home Service Driving duties Monday - Friday, with occasional weekends, you will have a break in the day due to cooking the evening meal. £50,000 GPA Jules@greycoatlumleys.co.uk Please do not apply if you do not hold a valid driving licence.

Notting Hill
Permanent
£50,000 GPA

Estate Manager Job

General Manager Opportunity, Luxury Boutique Estate, Italy An extraordinary opportunity has arisen for an experienced hospitality General Manager to oversee one of Italy’s most prestigious boutique properties. The property hosts highly discerning travellers from around the world seeking an elevated and bespoke experience in luxuriously appointed suites. Other high-end facilities include a spa, bespoke culinary services, tennis court and swimming pool, nestled in exceptional historical buildings and gardens. This is a hands-on, hospitality-driven position overseeing: Full operational leadership of the property Maintaining a team with a culture of warmth, humility, service excellence, and absolute discretion Delivering a fully bespoke guest experience Sales and marketing interactions with luxury travel agencies and specialist partners Re-energising existing relationships and identifying new high-value markets Attending relevant trade shows and representing the property with confidence and poise Working closely with the culinary team to tailor menus and guest experiences Ensuring the property always operates at the highest possible standards This is not a role for someone who wants to sit behind a desk. It requires grace under pressure, natural hospitality, creativity, and the ability to manage a team with maturity and kindness. It is also in a rural setting, with outdoor experiences prevalent, although very easily connected to large city hubs. To be considered: A native Italian speaking candidate with flawless English from a hospitality, palace, or boutique-5* hotel background Highly polished, finessed, commercially savvy, comfortable speaking with top global agencies Warm, respectful, grounded – able to operate in a small community without arrogance Exceptionally strong with VIP guests and UHNW clientele Capable of stepping into a fast-paced environment where expectations are extremely high Naturally proactive, resourceful, and solutions-driven – “no” is never the first answer Strong team leader who can mentor, refine and elevate a mixed-experience workforce Experience abroad (e.g., London, Paris or other international hubs) highly beneficial Able to balance demanding guest periods with quieter off-season responsibilities, primarily sales and marketing Package: €100,000 gross per annum, negotiable for the right candidate A recently refurbished and beautifully designed home where pets are welcome Partner welcome - the property is well suited for a partner who may work seasonally (e.g., culinary or spa support) Job No: 190541 Consultant: Andy Hodges

Florence
Permanent
€100,000 GPA

Animal Care Specialist Job (in a Private Household)

Animal Care Specialist Job (Private Household) A couple with two elderly dogs and a cat are seeking a wonderful and experienced Animal Care Specialist. This role focuses on providing attentive, loving, and well-organised care for their animals. The family will also be welcoming two puppies in January. The elderly dogs require medication and follow a well-established routine. The family divide their time between their main home in Kettering and a newly renovated London property. You will accompany them when they travel, staying overnight in a guest room at the London residence. There is a wider team in place, including a PA and housekeepers. You will be required to work 10 weekends per year when the family travel. Flexibility and a non–clock-watching attitude are important. Care for: 2 rescue dogs from China (aged 14 and 15) 1 cat (aged 12) 2 puppies arriving in January Responsibilities include: Creating and maintaining nutrition and feeding schedules Implementing exercise, enrichment, and routine discipline Monitoring health and administering medication Grooming and general pet hygiene Driving pets to vet and grooming appointments Providing companionship, attention, and stimulation Accompanying the couple and pets between Kettering and London Driving is essential. A veterinary medical background and strong pet nutrition knowledge are highly preferred. Salary: £45,000 GPA (Negotiable depending on experience) Days/Hours: 7am to 5pm, Monday to Friday, with flexibility required. 10 weekends a year for when the family are on holiday. Job ID: 190277 Contact Person: Shannon Anderson shannon@greycoatlumleys.co.uk Due to the popularity of the search, we will only be considering people who provide current CVs with extensive pet experience and checkable references. Applications by email only.

Kettering
Permanent
£45,000 GPA

Couple Job

Greycoat Lumley's client are seeking an experienced Couple for their property in the Dumfries area of Scotland. Surrounded by beautiful countryside and a wonderful sense of local community the location is perfect for a rural loving Couple. There are local villages close by to visit and for supplies. The Principals are in part time residence, the number of visits per year can vary. The current Couple have been there for a number of years Duties Include: Housekeeping Laundry Ironing Cooking for the family and guests - help is on offer for larger parties if required Occasional service may be required Gardening - sole charge Property maintenance Car maintenance Driving - including airport runs and to London Responsible for bees and chickens at the property The Couple must be self starters and able to manage and prioritise their workload. Accommodation: Private cottage on the grounds. Pets welcome within reason. Utility bills are covered by the Estate Salary: £65,000 to £75,000 GPA depending on experience Start: December 2025 or January 2026 – when the right Couple are found Job Number: 190110 Lesley@greycoatlumleys.co.uk

Dumfries
Permanent
£65,000 to £75,000 GPA

Live out Head Gardener job

Live out Head Gardener job in Berkshire This is wonderful opportunity for a Head Gardener, who is hands on, creative, enthusiastic and a natural leader, who leads by example and be a team player. This is a stunning and prestigious garden at the heart of a traditional country estate. The ideal candidate will need to have an eye for detail and the ability to deliver projects to the highest standards. He/she will lead a team of 4 other gardeners. This role would really suit someone who is confident to have overall responsibility for managing and maintaining the gardens and grounds to the most impeccable standards, oversee projects and to ensure its impeccable beauty is maintained This Head Gardener will need to have relevant qualifications as well as solid experience. PA1/PA6 spraying certificates are desirable. Some of the duties are: Full care & maintenance of flowers, shrubs, trees, lawns, hedges, topiary, orchards, rose gardens, lake. Planting, transplanting, fertilising, pruning, spraying, weeding, watering & managing pests & diseases. Implementing & maintaining detailed landscape & seasonal planting plans. Overseeing irrigation systems & ensuring efficient water management, in particular to minimise the effect of climate change. Maintenance of garden structures, equipment & supplies; safe use of machinery including tractors & vehicles. General groundskeeping: mowing, mulching, strimming, raking, snow clearance & upkeep of paths & driveways. Managing team of gardeners through training & mentoring, ensuring high standards & professional development. Budget control: keeping accurate expense records, budgets & reconciliations. Ordering plants & goods. Greenhouse management & propagation of flowers, fruit & vegetables Supporting ad hoc estate project work. Ensuring the teamwork within the health & safety guidelines as laid down by the employer Maintenance of London property terrace garden. Liaising closely with the Senior Property Manager to deliver the owner’s vision for the garden. The principal wants someone who is highly organised, has strong managerial skills but also has a creative flair when it comes to the garden work. Start: As and when the right person is found. Working week: Monday to Friday, 40/45 hour week with some flexibility when principals are in residence Driving: essential Salary: £47,000 GPA + with 25 days holidays plus Bank holidays Vacancy number: 189020 Consultant to contact: Anisa Sykes Lane If you would like to apply but are not already registered, please send your CV to jessica@greycoatlumleys.co.uk for review

Reading
Permanent
£47,000 GPA

Live in Couple

Live in Couple Job in Wiltshire An interior Domestic Couple required for a formal estate set in stunning grounds in Wiltshire. The couple must have a minimum of 3 years previous experience working within an ever-changing environment. Private House, Estate or Hotel experience is essential. The couple must have the flexibility to join an existing small team and be happy to adapt when needed to meet the clients high end expectations. A couple with an eye for detail and flair for going the extra mile to reach a goal. Both individuals will be working within the House. One member of the couple will need to be a confident driver to include London on occasions with a clean licence and one member will need to be a happy to cook simple family meals. Duties to include but not limited to: Housekeeper/ Duties for couple Main priority. Ensuring the house is kept to a high standard at all times. Working on a rota with other staff/5 day week. Family of 4 comprising of 2 x adults and 2 boys aged 8 and 11. Based in the South West most of the time with travel to London to help cover staff/ also willing to travel out of the UK with the family in the summer on occasion. All day-to-day housekeeping duties including, but not limited to: cleaning of all rooms, vacuuming, mopping floors, dusting, cleaning windows (inside) making and changing beds, preparing rooms for family & guests, cleaning up after meals, emptying bins, care of furniture and fine objects, flower arranging and care of house plants. Attending to the family with a high level of service and care when they are at the property. Plan as a team to undertake an ongoing in-depth program of deep-cleaning/specific tasks (i.e. carpet cleaning etc.) which can be done when the house is unoccupied. Care of all laundry including machine and handwashing, ironing, folding/hanging clothes, occasional sewing and mending of garments, handling and care of special fabrics, taking items for dry cleaning etc. Organising of wardrobes, packing and un-packing suitcases, shoe polishing and repairs Ordering and maintaining household supplies as required including cleaning products, linen, equipment etc. Knowledge of products with an eye for detail Laying of tables for both informal and formal meals. Serving at the table on occasion serving drinks. Family are in residence some weekends holidays and mid week visits. Not in the country full time- cleaning is within the large apartment not the historic part of the house. Driving duties – mainly to London Food shopping/ ordering Such other duties as may reasonably be required. Communicating with the wider staff within the Estate, must work well with others as a team player/not just as a couple unit. Proactive, energetic and willing to adapt from a regular routine to a busier environment. Greeting and care for daytime and overnight guests when required Childcare duties Assisting with childcare when the family are in residence in the evening- some help in the day Babysitting as required on occasion Providing well balanced and nutritious meals appropriate to the needs of the children. Family normally all eat together Cooking Duties Preparing and cooking meals on rotation for the family when they are in residence, if required, and for occasional dinner parties/ BBQ in accordance with their preferences and dietary requirements. Simple cooking but must be confident in the kitchen Planning and management of food stocks, ordering of groceries Management of fridges, freezers, other food storage areas to ensure all items are kept correctly and to reduce wastage Maintenance of wine cellar, monitoring of wine stock levels and advising when orders need to be placed Responsibility for recording and reporting of purchases and expenses relating to household purchases. Timely reporting of maintenance/equipment issues, liaising with suppliers/tradespersons for regular servicing and repair of kitchen equipment. Lots of external contractors and help with the estate Accommodation: 2-bedroom cottage on the estate. Utility bills included. Start date: End of November / December Days: 5 days per week – mixture of days off during the week or weekends Drivers: At least one must be a confident driver. A car is provided for work purposes. Salary: £70,000 gross per annum Consultant: Georgia Lester Vacancy Number: 189152

Wiltshire
Permanent
£70,000 GPA

Live out Handyman job

Live out handyman Job in Warwickshire There is a fantastic opportunity to work for a lovely couple who live on a 20-acre estate in Warwickshire. The main property features seven bedrooms, a swimming pool, tennis and squash courts, a gym, and several outbuildings. Also employed are 3 part time Gardeners We are looking for a capable, and proactive person with a high attention to detail and previous experience in similar roles. A strong work ethic, discretion, and pride in maintaining high standards are essential. Duties include but not limited to: Cleaning gutters Window cleaning Changing light bulbs Sweeping outdoor pathways Cleaning and regular maintenance of a large number of vehicles Occasional driving duties General handyman tasks and minor repairs Tidying and maintaining the workshop Ensuring outdoor spaces are clean, well-kept, and presentable Security Working days and Hours: Monday to Friday, 40 hours a week with flexibility Salary: £33,000 - £38,000 negotiable and dependant on experience Start Date: ASAP Responsible Consultant: Anisa Sykes Lane Vacancy Number: 187930

Warwickshire
Permanent
£33,000 - £38,000 GPA

Live in Couple Job

Live in Couple Job in Jersey This is fantastic opportunity to work for a lovely family who are about to move to Jersey. They will be residing in one of the most prominent houses on the island, which is about 10 minutes from St Helier. The Couple own homes in Cheshire, Mallorca, London and the Caribbean and between them have 6 children, one of whom is at boarding school. They have one Dog and the couple travel extensively between their homes, which are all fully staffed. They are looking to a top-notch couple (Estate Manager/Maintenance & Head Housekeeper) to take care of their beautifully renovated Estate. The property is approximately 12,000 sq, including additional cottages and sits on approximately 12 acres of land. Also employed are two cleaners (one full time and one part time) and a gardening team. The gardens will be undergoing a huge redevelopment so assistance in the project management of this would be ideal. Keeping the house clean and tidy (dusting, hoovering, mopping, tidying) Laundry and ironing Wardrobe management Packing and unpacking suitcases Running errands and shopping Assisting with meal preparation when the couple are in residence or have guests (someone who really enjoys cooking would be a huge bonus but not essential) Assisting with front of house duties, hosting and serving etc Overseeing other staff and contractors Driving duties Estate management duties Interior and exterior maintenance Handyman duties (minor repairs and DIY) Assist in the garden with general maintenance (maintaining box hedges, lawns, rose garden, vegetable garden etc) Dog care and dog sitting (2 weeks max at a time) Security and responsibility for alarm and CCTV The ideal couple would be proactive, self-starters, flexible, presentable, hands on and helpful. Start: December / January, but flexible for the right Couple Accommodation: either a 2-bedroom cottage or a very large 1-bedroom cottage on the estate. Pets will be considered. Working week: Monday to Friday, with weekend work required if the principals are in residence and entertaining Driving: ideally both to drive Salary: Competitive and negotiable depending on experience Consultant: Georgia Lester Job Number: 186836

Jersey
Permanent
Competitive

Live in Couple Job

Live in Couple Job in Hampshire A great opportunity for a Couple (Housekeeper/Cook & Butler/House manager/Driver) to work for at a beautiful main residence in Hampshire. The principals have 4 grown up children and 2 dogs. The property has 7 bedrooms and the principals also have other homes in the UK and abroad, where they travel to frequently. Also employed is a part time PA, 2 Gardeners and a Cleaner 3 times a week. Duties Keeping the house clean and tidy Preparing meals for the principals (their main meal is lunch and then you would need to prepare a light supper that they can heat up) Preparing a light breakfast such as fresh smoothies and juices etc Informal dinner party preparations Catering for a shoot party of 18 people once a year Shopping and running errands Wardrobe management Care of delicates Front of house duties when guests are visiting Pet care Butler duties and front of house Supervising and managing the day to day running of the property. Manage outside contractors employed for a specific purpose, ie Tree surgeons, service engineers etc Proactively identify and address potential maintenance and repairs across the estate. Responsible for the Monitoring and upkeep of the estates security and security systems to safeguard the estate and residents. Being the first point of contact on the estate for Alarm monitoring companies, outside providers. etc Driving duties and vehicle maintenance House and dog sitting As a Couple you should be professional, experienced, honest, trustworthy and dog lovers. Drivers Ideally Both to drive Accommodation: Separate 2-bedroom cottage – Small dogs will be considered. Start date: January onwards Working Days: Monday to Friday with occasional weekend work, if the family are entertaining Hours: 7:45am – 1pm then 3pm-6pm Salary: £75,000 - £85,000 gpa combined, negotiable for the right couple Consultant: Georgia Lester Job Number: 186803

Hampshire
Permanent
£75,000 - £85,000 GPA

Live in or Live out Head Gardener/Estate Manager Job

Live in Head Gardener/Estate Manager Job in Jersey This is a great opportunity to work for a lovely family who are about to move to Jersey. They will be residing in a stunning estate, which is about 10 minutes from St Helier. The Couple between them have 6 children, one of whom, the youngest, is at boarding school. They have one dog and the couple travel extensively between their homes, which are all fully staffed. They are looking to a top-notch Head Gardener, who could also have some estate management experience as an added bonus, to take care of their beautifully renovated Estate. The property is approximately 12,000 sq, including additional cottages and sits on approximately 12 acres of land. Also employed are two cleaners (one full time and one part time) and a gardening team. The gardens will be undergoing a huge redevelopment so assistance in the project management of this would be ideal and someone who would be happy to work with landscape designers but also be able some of their own ideas is what they are looking for. An eye for detail Able to take the lead A team player Hands on approach with the development work and maintenance of the garden Project management of brining this garden up to a high standard as it is currently quite dated Kitchen garden to maintain Cut flower garden to also maintain throughout the seasons Overseeing other staff and contractors Driving duties Estate management duties Interior and exterior maintenance Handyman duties (minor repairs and DIY) Dog care and dog sitting (2 weeks max at a time) Security and responsibility for alarm and CCTV The ideal Head Gardener will be able to work independently, work closely with the family's vision and lead this great project and hopefully remain with the family long term. This family has had their other home gardens illustrated in garden magazines. This is the level of passion they have for their estates. Start: December / January, but flexible for the right person Accommodation: either a 2-bedroom cottage or a very large 1-bedroom cottage on the estate. Pets will be considered. Working week: Monday to Friday, with weekend work required if the principals are in residence and entertaining Driving: ideal Salary: £45,000 - £55,000, depending on experience email: anisa@greycoatlumleys.co.uk

Jersey
Permanent
£45,000 - £55,000 GPA

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Summer Couple Jobs, St Tropez, South of France An incredible Luxury Villa company based in Southern France is seeking several experienced Chef and Host couples for their Villas next summer season. This company is the most established private Villa company in St Tropez and operates some of the most exclusive private properties on the market, they operate with a true moral compass and take very good care of their staff. With a network of incredible suppliers and contacts the company insures a smooth operational structure and excellent training for their staff in an effort to provide guests with the ultimate luxury experience in this exclusive French seaside resort. The concierge service ensures that Guests enjoy the best of what St Tropez has to offer. The client is looking for Couples with the following skill set and experience. Exemplary Cooking skills preferably with Michelin level training Fantastic hosting and warm character Work hard personality and can do attitude Silver Service experience Friendly not familiar/ Invisible and available characteristics The client prioritises the right personality over anything else and is happy to offer some of the candidates training and mentoring to achieve standards provided that their attitude is right. The client is open to employing British candidates on short term summer contracts for the months of June, July and August provided the candidates can fulfil the 90 day commitment. They are also seeking the right couples for the entirety of the season May – October. Employment Package: €9,000 Per Month Combined which includes the below: Private Room in a shared House (Some with their own swimming Pool) Own vehicle for private use during the summer Salary of €6,000 Combined per month (excluding tips) 1 full Day off per week Guaranteed – usually more Training if required Candidates will also benefit from an incredible experience where they grow and are mentored professionally, exposure to some of the world most HNW individuals and phenomenal tips dependent on the level of service provided. Job ID: 114851 Please Apply to Archie McClintock - archie@greycoatlumleys.co.uk

France
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DOE

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Gardener, West Cork, Ireland Greycoat Lumley’s client are seeking an experienced Gardener for their private 7 acre garden in West Cork, a place of great wildness and abundance, needs an experienced all-rounder. West Cork is Ireland’s Cornwall. it is gardening heaven. It benefits from the Gulf Stream and temperatures that seldom drop beyond -2*C nor stay below zero for more than a couple of hours. The soil is gently acidic and hence Magnolias, Camellias, Myrtles, Dicksonia, Echium and all but the most tender plants thrive. Mt Corrin House’s Garden is within 150 yards of the sea and has a tidal stream running through it, yet the deep tree cover means that we have the upside of a coastal garden without the loading of salt that one would expect. The Garden was established c20 years ago and has matured rapidly. After 15 years, our current Gardener is downscaling and we need a new Head Gardener to take it to even higher standards of interest and abundance. Gardener to bring (back) professional gardening skills to the management of: A flower garden in a (small) walled garden Much wisteria A river garden planted up with Gunnera, Taxodium, bamboos Several ponds with much marginal planting A Charles Jenks-style terraced hill A hectare of kitchen garden with commercial scale Polytunnels in which asparagus, melons and all the usual are grown There is a Groundsman and resident Housekeeper. The nearest village is 1 mile away and good market town, 10 miles away. A car is available if needed. A Garden Tour company will be visiting the garden in July. Accommodation: Newly converted Granary is provided on site Salary: To be agreed Start: ASAP Job: 175315

Ireland
Permanent
DOE

Gardener Job

Head Gardener Job – East Lothian Greycoat Lumley's client is seeking an experienced Head Gardener for their Private Estate in East Lothian. East Lothian is a highly desirable location in which to live. It is within easy reach of Edinburgh, has many beaches and is a wonderful place to enjoy the outdoor life and sense of local community. The gardens consist of a total of 26 acres, which includes formalgardens, with herbaceous borders, display glasshouse and production greenhouses, woodland, an arboretum and an orchard. In addition the walled garden has recently been acquired and presents the opportunity for rejuvenation, redesign and new planting . There are long standing members of staff who work on the estate who enjoy being part of the team. Applicants must have a positive and flexible mind-set with a good sense of humour. A strong horticultural knowledge is required with a proper understanding of plant husbandry for trees, shrubs, hedging, herbaceous perennials and annuals as well as lawns and plants under glass. The ability to operate and maintain garden machinery is important, as is certification for chainsaw use and spraying equipment. A full, clean UK driving licence is also a requirement. This is a wonderful opportunity to lead in the gardens and to work for Principals who appreciate the development of the grounds. Days: Monday to Friday - 40 hours a week Accommodation: 2-bedroom cottage, next to the property grounds. Logs are provided for the wood burning stove and the cottage is in great condition throughout. Council tax is paid by the Principals Salary: £30,000 + GPA depending on experience Start: January 2026 Job: 186241

East Lothian
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£30,000 + GPA

Couple Job

Domestic Couple Job, Dumfriesshire Greycoat Lumley's client are seeking a kind, capable, and discreet Domestic Couple to support the smooth running of a beautifully restored Private Estate in rural Dumfriesshire. The previous housekeeper was in post for 7 years prior to the building work. There is a 7 bed principal property and further ancillary guest properties. Full details are available on application. This is a long-term opportunity for a professional Couple who bring warmth, initiative, and pride to their work and who value the rhythm of life in the countryside. You'll be joining a supportive, established estate team, and caring for a home with beautiful interiors set in a stunning garden. Willingness to work flexible hours is essential as this is a second home and there are consequently periods of intense activity balanced by quieter spells. The household includes three young children, no pets. Duties Include: A Housekeeper Cleaning, laundry, ironing, and wardrobe care across main and ancillary properties Household inventory and shopping Managing household supplies and liaising with estate contractors Looking after antiques, fine furnishings, and delicate finishes Supporting entertaining and guest arrivals, even when principals are not there Light cooking and food prep (healthy, family friendly, mainly vegetarian cuisine) Creating a calm, organised, environmentally responsible, and well-run household Driving (regular station trips both local and farther afield) and errand support A Property Maintenance / Handyperson General maintenance and caretaking of all properties inside and out including pressure washing of sandstone terraces and pathways Managing tradespeople and overseeing repairs or schedules Supporting security and the smooth day-to-day operation of the properties Driving and errand support Maintenance of a swimming pond and building Point of contact for Biomass boiler involving trouble shooting Inspection of all estate properties including one a 15 minute drive away Recycling management Candidate Qualities Previous experience as a Domestic Couple in a private household or estate Self-motivated and genuinely happy working together A practical, can-do attitude with a respectful, professional approach Complete flexibility is essential to work evenings and weekends when required Excellent references and the right to work in the UK A good understanding of privacy and discretion At ease in a rural, countryside setting Full UK driving licence Location: Dumfriesshire, Scotland Accommodation: 3-bedroom private cottage + Council Tax + Fire wood Days: Annualised hours contract Start Date: Early February 2026 Salary: £70,000 - £80,000 gross per annum, negotiable depending on experience This is a special opportunity to join a thoughtful and well-supported household where your contribution will be genuinely appreciated. The right couple will enjoy the peace and beauty of the locality while helping to maintain a beloved family home. Job: 186109

Dumfries
Permanent
£70,000 to £80,000 GPA

Personal Assistant Job

Executive / Business Assistant & Charity Manager Job Greycoat Lumleys are recruiting for an experienced Executive / Business Assistant to report to the Company Director in the city centre of Edinburgh. This would be a wonderful role for a candidate who is passionate about charity and is keen to become involved in the role beyond the administration aspect. Duties to include, but are not limited to: Supporting the Company Director with day-to-day administrative duties to ensure smooth running of the Company and Charity Charity management to include taking/collating applications, meeting with applicants and scheduling, presenting & minuting Trustee meetings Advanced use of MS Office, particularly Excel Creating monthly financial reports and maintaining spreadsheets across different projects Expense management Familiar with Xero accounting software Arranging travel and accommodation for the Director Management of invoices and reconciliation of multiple credit card statements/bills Liaise with accountants to prepare quarterly and yearly accounts Management of luxury self-catering properties around Scotland Assist with the effective running of agricultural land in the north of Scotland Skills and Experience Prior EA/PA experience. Family Office background preferred but not essential High level of discretion Highly organised, proactive, and self-sufficient Detail oriented UK driving license desirable Hours: Mon to Fri 9am to 5.30pm Start: ASAP Salary: £40,000 subject to experience (overtime taken in lieu) - Holidays 30 days Laptop and mobile provided. Mobile can be used for personal and business calls. Pension Job: 163698 lesley@greycoatlumleys.co.uk

Edinburgh
Permanent
£40,000 GPA

Couple Job

Couple Job, Northern France A client who has come recommended to Greycoat Lumleys is seeking a Domestic couple to join their team at a Beautiful château in Northern France. The château is located in the Historic Oise region. Details on first role: Handyperson / Gardener Assist with the upkeep of the Chateau] Planned Maintenance Ad-hoc Maintenance Assist the gardeners Potential travel to secondary location once a year in the South of France Ideally speak french (intermediate upwards) Must be fluent in English Must be a Driver Ideally have London or UK experience Must have a valid French Working Visa or EU passport Must have a reference verifiable background working as part of a couple for a UHNW large property Details on the second role Chef Assistant / Housekeeper Assisting the chef, to sous chef standard Must have experience in a cooking position Must be able to assist the chef to a high standard Will be required to assist the housekeeping team at weekends Potential travel to secondary location once a year in the South of France Ideally be a Driver Must be Fluent in English Ideally speak basic French upwards Ideally have London or UK experience Must have a valid French working Visa or EU passport Must have a reference verifiable background working as part of a couple for a UHNW large property Benefits salary combined of €6,000 Net per month Accommodation provided 5 days per week Stunning location only 1.5 hours from Paris Consultant: Archie McClintock Job No: 183329

Oise
Permanent
EURO 6,000 NET

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